Late and no period or signs...any advice please?

Katie • Stay at home mommy as of 6/30/16!!!
Ugh I'm 3 going on 4 days late. The cramps stopped I spotted again thinking my period was here on the day I was exspected on the 23rd but that stopped. Took a preggo test last sun it was negative. Spotted on the 13 then cramped off and on for a week. I am scared to take another and get another negative. My period did last longer then normal this cycle I traveled so not sure that's playing a roll. I had a wicked sore throat yesterday and thought a cold was coming but nothing came. I'm not really stressed either no more then normal and that's not much. Hmm what should I do??? I'm nervous to test but thinking of Sunday am just to see. Ugh....I haven't been late in ages not to the days of ha where I went on birth control pills. But I've been off that for years. I have a yearly appt at the gyno 7/9. I'm 33 trying for just about 11 months now. 😁😁 Starting to get cramps as I write so part of me hopes its period which I wish was pregnancy feelings but at this rate I hope 😐