Hate thisssss. Sorry its long. RANNNNT!

My SO omg I don’t even know where to start with him. He has a family that’s super fucking over protective. His brother has a wife and she basically has no fucking freedom. She goes and comes back from work. She goes out if it’s only with her husband and his family. She isn’t able to see her family unless they come over or they BOTH go to see them and unbelievably she’s okay with all this.

Now me. My SO is the same fucking way. I HATE it w a passion but I’m expecting and don’t want my baby to grow up without a dad so I put up with this. My mom tries soooo much to see me alone to have girl time since I don’t live w her. BUT my SO starts accusing me of cheating. The only time I’m able to go to see her is when he comes along. My mom recently wanted me to go with her to an appointment & she said to get their early and guess tf what. My SO got mad and started accusing me of shit AGAIN. Said if I go not to come back anymore. Said if I go once I have the baby he’s taking full custody. Said he’ll do anything for the kid. Like holy shit wtf is wrong with them. Not including my father in law too , he’s the same way and idk how my mother in law puts up with this. Unless bc she has no family here they’re all back in her hometown. Wtf is so wrong w seeing family. Not to say my mother in law agrees with all of this , couple days ago I wanted to go eat out with a couple of my family members and my mother in law said not to bc it’s bad and it’s making me look bad it’s not right to be eating out with male family members by myself. Like tf is going to happen ITS FAMILY. omg I SWEAR.