abusive husbands fam?

im making plans to leave my abusive husband atm. i just dont know what i should do w his mom. his mom is always shit talking about my fam to other ppl that theyre the weridest ever. everytime i have problems w my husband abusing me, id go to them and they wouldnt want me to go back. his mom would act like theyre stupid for not wanting me to go back, when she clearly knows her son is abusive. she acts like her son is so smart and nice, i should be lucky to have him. i should feel lucky that hes not letting me go work and just let me stay home. she acts like my parents will never have a better son in law than him, MY ASS. they do btw, they have 2 thats way better. anyways, she also said im not good for him. her daughter is also in an abusive marriage, and she always tell her to be patient and stay.