Baby daddy drama

I don’t like posting my business — yet I have no where to turn to for unbiased opinions...

You can be honest don’t be bias and tell me what you think —

My daughter father and I are NOT together. He basically kicked me out of his house in NY which left me no choice but to move to OH with my family and take our daughter with me.

Yesterday was our daughters 1st birthday and without any invitation or any acknowledgement he pops up in Ohio and tells me that he’s taking our daughter. Excuse me! Umm no.

I told him that he can visit his daughter but he isn’t taking her anywhere because I have plans for her. I was more than welcomed to have him come to my mothers house but she said he couldn’t come there. She felt it was rude of him to invite himself without her consent.

I told him this and he says he wants to take our daughter and I told him he’s not taking her because he doesn’t deserve to. As in I’m not dropping my plans because you decided to show up unannounced.

I called him later that evening to see if he was still in town and I can understand his frustration so he wasn’t being very cooperative while the reason I called was so he can get his daughter the next day. I hung up on him since all he wanted to do was argue and I’m not going to mess up my baby bday for that non sense.

I called him the next morning to again see if he was still in town so he can come get his baby. His sister answers the phone and has a slight attitude and I can see that they were home. So she has this face and since she didn’t want to start the conversation I took it upon myself to do so.

I asked “you guys were only in Ohio for one day?” So her aunt takes the phone and says “fuck you Stacey” and we just start arguing back and forth (this is what would always happen when we lived together; his family always gets involved in our business).

End of story I can see why they would be mad yet I don’t feel like I’m wrong in this situation. Regardless of anything I feel like it’s rude and DISRESPECTFUL to show up somewhere you’re not wanted unannounced and demanding what you want and when it doesn’t work in your favor your family is comfortable being rude and disrespectful to the mother of your child.

I can understand if I said you can’t see your daughter but that wasn’t the case here. Next time I think he should communicate with me and find out what’s going on first.

What’s your opinions? All is respected ... please leave your opinion down in the comments