Problem in paradise
I just got out of a serious relationship with a guy. We were together almost 4 years and I’ve ever only ever been intimate with him.
Fast forward a month and a half I met someone who seemed to be perfect. We have so many of the same interests and the same humor and he’s so much fun to be around. Plus he’s cute as fuck. There’s one problem though:
He has something called phimosis meaning his foreskin can’t be put back to expose the head. It’s gotten steamy a couple of times but never sex, and after I feel myself feel strange because I’ve never seen a penis look like that before. When I give him hand jobs and one time a blow job I feel bad because I’m not used to how it looks and feels and part of me feels grossed out that something might come out because the condition makes it harder to clean. It also slants to one side so that’s new as well.
I like him a lot and I can see this going somewhere, but I feel his penis is so different from my ex that I feel myself stopping because I think it’s weird. I know he can’t help it and I cannot ask him to get circumcised, which seems like what most people do with the condition. I know sexual attraction is important, so I’m a little conflicted.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.