What are your thoughts on this topic?: Prenatal care quandry.... https://glowing.com/community/topic/72057594041367288. My first (27)was non medicated, vaginal and second (35)was a failed epidural with bladder retention and hemorrhage because the hospital "forgot" to catheterize me. Now, I will be 42 and cannot get traditional medical prenatal care or coverage until I am 23wks along (See attached). Our area midwives are through birthing centers 45min away. I am 5-10 min from 2 hospitals. My partner is an amazing dad who would like to be involved in delivery...