No Social Media

When my son is born I don’t want people taking pictures without Permission of my son and I don’t want them posted online for everyone to see either.

I’ve barely had any pregnancy photos posted. I posted 1 ultrasound then removed it later. So i have zero pictures of my ultrasounds on Facebook.

My ex had posted all my ultrasounds and didn’t even bother to remove the info across the top. He didn’t even ask! I made him remove them all and haven’t given him any more ultrasounds since. He does shit like that for attention.

But the entire time we were together while I was pregnant he was trying to make me do adoption. 😒

Anyways

I don’t want him taking any photos and i don’t want any photos being uploaded. At. All.

I’m a private person and I don’t want my son blasted on other people’s social media accounts for attention.

My ex ( the sperm donor) was psychologically abusive and also sexually degrading/abusive.

He’s not allowed at the hospital when I have the baby.

I have PTSD from my relationship with him now and will be having to have a c-section because my doctor doesn’t want to trigger any flashbacks or panic attacks while in labor.

He also won’t be on the birth certificate.

There will be no court stuff hopefully and I plan to keep visitations to a minimal and short.

He isn’t allowed around me unless I have my family there with me.

Am I over reacting for not wanting him to get any photos?

Or for not wanting pictures posted online without my permission?