Why do I always look so bad!?

Ok so it’s happened so many times where I go out to parties and my hair goes flat and my makeup goes away in like an hour. Yesterday I went to a party with my bf and my hair lost it’s curl way before we got there, my makeup within the hour was gone and splotchy. I looked around at all the other girls with their hair perfect and makeup was like permanently set on their face!

I use primer and I bake and I use setting spray. I do it all and I still look bad! I try to be cute but like how the hell do other girls do it!? I was so self conscious cause my bf was looking at all the pretty girls and I was there like a sweaty potato.