second piercing? (not my photo)

Skulli

Im 15 years old and one year ago I got my industrial done. I almost fainted cuz I didnt eat that day and lost a lot of blood (not a serious amount). I also have my lobe done from when I was like 6.

My mom is letting me get my second lobe and due to my bad experince with my industrial I wanna know if a second lobe would be as bad or could be as bad. Also does it hurt cuz its kinda close to the cartliage.