He’s newly single and I’ve been single for years

He’s somewhat closed off and a little too safe. He doesn’t take control like I would like. Maybe he’s too easy going for me. But tonight I found out he’s newly single. I feel like he’s forcing us like maybe he’s not ready to talk to someone new. But I’m too old and too tired to beg or force or push relationships anymore. Like wtf am I even doing. He’s so handsome. But I’m so sick of finding guys who are always working on something. Like get your fucking shit together. Why u bothering me. I know exactly what i want and I’m tired of waiting for people to catch up to me. He seems more vulnerable than anything. Should I even wait on this guy?