Should I be mad at him for not letting me cum?

Question

My bf gets me all hot & bothered, he'll finger me, do all the nice touches in the right spots, play with my breast, but then he'll stop & have me mess around with him until he actually cums! And then not finish me. I understand, it takes woman (especially me) twice as long to cum than men, but like it's all the fucking time he does this. And I truly can't help to be pissed about it b/c I get all excited for nothing. He does this during sex too. Sometimes I'll just let him cum first b/c I know it would take me too long, but when I tell him I'm close he cums anyways. Ugh, I hate how pissed off I am by this! 
I also hate that for some reason I feel like I don't have a right to be mad at him, b/c he truly is a great boyfriend & does so much for me, but man when it comes to anything sexual he's so almost selfish about it. 
Do I even have a right to be mad at him?

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Yes, of course you can be mad. 
I have a very difficult time orgasming as well. Sometimes I get frustrated because I tell my husband to cum because I know I won’t be able to, but yet he keeps trying! 
You should do it to him a few times. Suck his dick until he tells you he’s about to cum then walk away. Ride him until his eye rolls back, then when he’s about to cum, hop off and go shower. He’ll learn 👀🤷🏼‍♀️

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You definitely have a right to be irritated. My partner was the same. I had to talk to him a couple of times about the imbalance in our sex lives and how it made me feel. I let him know that it made me feel used, unimportant and unloved. I let him know it left me frustrated and angry and not really that keen for sex knowing how it would end (I think that’s the comment that really got to him and made him pick up his game haha) 
I found it so annoying because he was such a loving guy but when it came to sex he was selfish. I really think it had a lot to do with his previous partners not educating him enough on their pleasure and faking orgasms.

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Sorry, that’s wrong. No matter how much of a “great boyfriend” he is. Still selfish and that’s not what a real man does!!! So talk to him and if after that he doesn’t care and or continues his ways u know where you stand and what to do. Run fast.

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if he is a great boyfriend he won't be selfish in t e bedroom and want you to feel good

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I’ll put it like this.
He only cares about his needs and desires.. not yours..
He gets you all hot and bothered so that he can get his rocks off.. and then doesn’t even care that you are left hanging.
That’s not a man..
How can he even feel like a man when he hasn’t done his job at pleasing you

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I'd be mad as hell. You deserve sexual satisfaction too.
My only question is, have you actually talked to him about it? Have you said hey, you seem to regularly stop pleasuring me right before I orgasm, what's up with that? Because I wonder if he's just misreading you and thinks that you've finished already, and so it's his turn.

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I’d be irritated. My hubby always tries to make me cum before he does. But at Times he won’t but that’s okay. Maybe you should talk to him about it??

Should I be mad at him for not letting me cum?

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