I know it’s not fair but ...

I plan to give my SO a two month test without him knowing. The test of whether I stay or not. Many of you guys will prolly say allot of negative comments about this but oh well I’d like to see how you guys think or feel about this. . See here’s the thing, me and my SO have been through allot. I’ve put up with so much. I’m so close to being done which is why I decided to put up a test. I’ll deal with everything possible and won’t bitch and see how he acts and see how much he changes. I’ve put up with so much of his drama and his family drama too (we live w his parents atm ) they think it’s RIGHT for a female to have no freedom. They think a female should be the house wife and nothing else (meaning after hs No work just household things ) they think it’s wrong for a female to hit a male but a male to be able to abuse his wife for not doing what he says. I’ve put up with this and soooo much more and I’m honestly getting tired. I LOVE my SO but he’s turning into his dad and I HATE it. I’ve tried talking to him but nothing works. I’ve tried so much but nothing works. His dad had put so much things into my SOs head. He’s told him that we shouldn’t see my family anymore , that I shouldn’t be talking to my family anymore. He’s even told him that if I try to see my family or anything to just tell me to leave bc that’s not what the female should do , she should OBEY the male and what he says and if she doesn’t then there’s no point in having her. I’ve become so antisocial, I’ve lost so many friends. & I’m not allowed to talk to anyone but females bc it’s wrong for me to have male friends. (Which I understand but they stay passing lines. ) my SO has hit me before and I’ve forgiven him. I won’t say I haven’t hit him back bc I have. (I don’t let myself )& you know what? His dad said it’s wrong for me to hit him but okay for me to get hit. (His dad abuses his wife) see and what’s worse is that my MIL Is okay w all this mainly bc she’s used to it. So I decided to give him a two month test without him knowing , change and if he continues w the same behavior I’m out. I do plan to talk to him sooner about this , it’s just hard to leave someone you do love.