She buys him stuff and he trying to hide it from me

Okay ladies. I don’t know if I am overreacting or if my jealously and trust issues is coming out. I don’t know what one it is. Or if I should even be freaking worried about this!

My boyfriend has this female friend they been friends since they were little kids. They talk a lot, but less than they use to. Because I told him about how I had a problem with him talking to her late at night when we’d be in bed watching a movie or trying to sleep. That cut down.

So this morning he kept getting phone calls back to back to back. To the point it started pissing me off, because I couldn’t sleep through the calls. He didn’t answer none of them, come to find out they were all loan companies. Well than we finally wake up and he starts checking his phone. His phone was facing towards both of us. Than all a sudden to turns his phone fast and replies to a text. So than he goes to get in the shower. He keeps coming in and out the room looking at his phone before he finally got in the shower.

So while he’s in the shower. I went through his phone. I seen a message she sent “You know you want me to suck it.” Than another message “sorry wrong person.” He replied “😂😂😂😂😂 ok.” So I let that go, but it stuck with me for awhile why I made every assumption up in my head. 😭

Than I read “I just got your tracking number for your tray.” Sent from her. That’s why he turned his phone away fast. He said “Dang, for real?”

He been asking me for this tray. Because he smokes and wants it to place his stuff and roll up on it. I haven’t had the money due to just started working and my first check went all on stuff I needed. It wasn’t much. I get paid Friday and I was going to buy it for him than after I paid bills. And to find out she brought it is making me angry. Like since I can’t buy it another girl will? Even though they been friends for many many many years! I shouldn’t feel they way I do. I know! They are just friends. His sister even told me that’s ONE FEMALE YOU DON’T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT.

But my thing is also, my guy friends ? I can’t talk to them. Because he says they only want in my pants and I just can’t see it. Which I doubt that, my guy friend is MARRIED WITH A NEWBORN BABY!

UPDATE:

I’m going to wait until the tray gets here and than I’m gonna be like “Oh when did you buy this?” And see what he says. If he lies I’m calling him out on it . Thanks Anne for the advice!