Not wanting MIL in delivery room

Sooo idk if it’s just me but I don’t feel comfortable having my MIL in the delivery room. Me and my bf have been dating for about a lil over a year and I don’t have a relationship with her. Me and my bf aren’t married but soon will be. I don’t have a relationship with my MIL. She’s is very controlling and try’s to tell me what to do and how I needed to have my baby shower!!! Like ummm that’s my decision on how I want it not urs. My mom and her don’t get along either because my MIL said she’d help pay for my gender reveal and it came to the day of the party and al of a sudden couldn’t give my mom her half so my mom ended up paying for it SAME Thing with the shower. But now my bf doesn’t care if she’s in there or not but I just don’t feel comfortable and she freaked out on me and played the pitty card with her son (my bf) saying she was sooo hurt 😂😂 BS😂😂 I’ve tried to get my nails and stuff done with her and tried to build a relationship but she keeps shooting me down so idc anymore but she had her oldest son call me out in front of their family and attack me saying she should be in the room HELLLOOO it’s my body am I wrong ???? Please help I need opinions