Blonde vs Brunette

I’m new to this app.. I am 27 years old, a wife and a mother to a 5 year old girl and a 4 year old boy. As a stay at home mom, I don’t really have many friends (sad huh?) so... I want to get some strangers opinions.

I currently have reddish brown/blonde hair... I am debating on if I should go back to my dark brown or if I should go back to blonde. I love the blonde but everyone else likes the brown. HELP! lol

The photo with my makeup all done up is my current color...the one from Snapchat is the darkest my hair has ever been.. and then the blonde is a few days after bleaching (c2010)