Embarrassing to say but...

My husband and I haven’t had sex since we conceived! And I’m 21 weeks 🤣

First off, took us years to conceive and I’m terrified of miscarrying.

Second, I’m now to the point of being actually scared of sex because I feel like it’s going to be painful since its been so long, and hearing some horror stories on here of bleeding afterwards is really freaking me out.

My husband has been amazing through this and totally understands, but I feel so bad. I need to get it together.

Any suggestions? 🤦🏼‍♀️