The baby name is causing big trouble!!!

From the moment I found out I was pregnant I had two names set in my mind. If it was a girl she would be called Gracie-Mai after my two sisters. If it was a boy he would be called Remus-Paul. They sre just names for some reason i was dreaming about.

So i am currently 24 weeks and 3 days pregnant with a very healthy little boy!

I still am absolutely determined on the name Remus-Paul. (Paul is after my grandad, he is the best man figure i could ask for) but my partner despises the name. Its caused many arguments.

His mother says to him to get me to change my mind!

His Mother’s friend commented on my Facebook status and I quote “Dont tell me your calling him that .... my cousin is called that in Ireland & they call him anus 😢 not happy hun think abait it Xxxx”

I was like

“ Thought about it many of times . Im carrying him, going to give birth to him, getting my body out of shape for him and will love him and worry about him from now until the day i die. So that’s his name and I am really not changing it. Get over it! 😘”

And i was so pissed ao i told my partner and its caused us to have a massive argument. I said no matter if he doesn’t like the name he should defend me! And back me!

But he says no, why would i as I don’t like the name.... so im like you and your family are digging your own grave!

Edit: forgot to say i have tried to include him in the naming etc... i even said he can choose the middle name but his not having it...

I also forgot to say that his family have always hated me... called me a slag and said he should walk away from me and the baby.

His family also want to take the baby from me.