I'm drained...
Hey ladies
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 yrs we have a 1 in a half year old and he has 2 kids from a previous relationship.
Hes been super mean to me
Everything I ask him to do he will say hes gonna and wont. He continuesly says hell do it in a min 10 15 20 30 60 mins go by and he dnt.
Today we were supose to pay rent my labdlord txted me but my phone was on 1% so I told him hey babe can u text our landlord and tell him well drop $ off tomorrow (being he didnt text me till 7pm) he tells me yes. Give me a min half hr gies by I go did u txt him ? He goes on shit no I forgot. My phone had just turned on and he goes ur phones on now u can text him.
So later on that night the kids mother texted me and was telling me how shes gonna have back surgery and cant take the kids for a month and I told him babe ur gonna need to find a sitter cause Im gonna need help.
And the summer prior his family didnt help everytime I asked it was a issue (Her days are usually the weekends). He ignored me... than he tells me how I treat him like shit. I treat you like shit ?!
I cook
Take care if our son
The dog
YOUR KIDS
I clean everyday
While u sleep till 3pm
I got up with all 3 kids today while not going to sleep until 3am cause our son is teething
his son goes to school at 710 so has to be up. by 645
daughter goes to school at 855 so has to be up by 830.
and than our son.
all while he slept I didn't get a thank u.
I'm exhausted to the point I'm crying nonstop.
I know how tomorrows gonna be I'll have to wake him up LITERALLY 12 times.
Well sit here for 3 hrs by than the kids will be home
And well sit home.. I told him what time did u wanna wake up tomorrow he goes when I feel like It. I go come on plz tell me its supose to be nice I wanna do something he goes than u better drive or learn too.
I asked him can he change the baby while I cook
he goes I guess
the baby bit open a popcicle and. I go hey babe can u change him while I scrub his outfit . all he did was take off his clothes
I took the garbage out and the bag is currently sitting in my kitchen
We were talking bout moving we pay 850$ a month.
And hes the only one working due to no sitter for our son nd his kids on mondays. So he starts to agrue with me . " u better get a job than" I go u dnt wanna move cause schools.
My parents house across the st from them is 4 bedroom with a yard u just dnt wann move across from my parents when we lived above yours for 2 yrs.
He goes u wanna move so bad than get a job.
I go mk find a sitter than for ur kids.
Ill find one for our son.
All I do is sit in the house and he never wants to do anything or he does at night its supose to 85 tomorrow and I bet u were gonna sit here :(
I'm sleeping alone with our son cause he fell asleep while I stayed up with him
also everytime I ask him to do something hes playing on his phone
Advice?
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