Mother’s Day Gift?

I want to have a Mother’s Day gift made for my mom that has my daughters name involved, but I feel like if I do that I have to put her other three grandkids..but we haven’t been able to see two of them since they were 2 and a newborn and they’re 6 and 4 now. And the. The other one we haven’t even been able to meet, I honestly don’t even know if I can spell his name right. (They’re her step grandkids too) Should I find out how to spell this nephews name who was taken away from us? My step sisters mom told my step sister that my step dad, her real dad, beat her and my step brother when they were kids and that’s why my step sister wants nothing to do with us. My step brother doesnt believe his mom, and we got to see his two daughters for a couple years until they moved to Florida and haven’t been back. We keep in touch with him and the girls, but know nothing about my step sisters son. Should I just put my two nieces and my daughters name??