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I have a 10 months and a half baby boy which I love so so much. Of course I would like to have other kids but not now. Period is in May 6th. But I don’t know why something told me to test 4 days before. So I got the one which gives you results 5 days earlier. I’m shocked shocked. I mean I’m not ready for a second child. How will i handle this. Please I need some courage. I’m crying right now. I don’t even think about abortion but  not ready for this baby. Hubby doesn’t know yet. And the worst is that for the 4 last months I smoked not much but 4-5 cigarettes per day. If that would hurt my baby? We weren’t trying that’s why I let my self enjoy some bad habitudes from the past. I feel lost. I’m so down

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Wow... meanwhile others like myself pray everyday to get a positive.

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You will be fine, just take a deep breath.

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My daughter is 9 months tomorrow and I'm almost 9 weeks with our second. Absluotely not planned, but after about a week, we were able to get excited about it. Take a deep breath, tell your husband, and remember how you felt the first time you held your firstborn. This may not be your plan, but you have a few months to mentally prepare, and this baby is still a gift. Good luck to you!

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My two kiddos are 12.5 months apart....  I remember crying when I found out I was pregnant again.  I wasn’t crying for myself but for my son.  I was so nervous he wasn’t going to get what he need from his parents at such a young age.  His pediatrician comforted me and said he’s never going to remember a time when his sister wasn’t around.  They are 11 and 12 now and are the best of friends....  they still have their fights but she is also the greatest gift I could have ever given him (someone to share crazy parents with).  It was hard having two so young and at different developmental points in their life but I wouldn’t have done it any other way!!!!  You got this!!!!

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talk to your husband see how he reacts.if you guys aren't ready there is other options. I would never ever say abortion that is murder but there is adoption. but I wouldn't want to do that either I would keep my child being as it would have been my own doing. unprotected sex=pregnancy sometimes

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Aww you’ve been blessed to give your baby boy a best friend so close in age! ❤️ 
While we are busy making plans god laughs at us. Trust he’s given you this blessing because he knows you are strong & can handle it. All the best love!

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You’ll be fine mama! I promise. You will be fine!
My first was a special needs baby (autism.. and those first 3 years were so hard!! She’s come so far the past 2!) . I got pregnant with #2 and wondered how I was going to do it. How would I do two babies .. and keep up with school, therapies, and etc. 
I did it.  You just do. Somewhere inside of us is this inner strength we don’t know we have until we need it most.
I’m 11 weeks with #3. We have my step son living with us undergoing chemo and soon radiation for stage 2 Hodgkin’s lymphoma and my husband has an alcohol problem we are working on (he’s not mean or violent y’all. He just drinks too much and He just wants to feel healthy again) .We were trying to avoid, but after a few drinks my husband went for gold. I knew the second he did that I’d be pregnant. 10 days later, I tested and sure enough. Positive. I was angry, upset, and scared at first. I had just started working again, I had just graduated with my BA, and we agreed no more kids for 2 years. Then the excitement set in of realizing there will be another human being to love. To raise to be good to others. To teach to be compassionate, kind, and gentle to everyone they meet. And I’m at peace. God’s timing is never wrong. It’s us who believe the timing is wrong. 
You’ll be fine. ❤️ promise.

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Everything will be ok. Talk with your husband. You really need support right now and he is the one to go to. Just take a deep breath and Stay calm.

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take a deep breathe. talk to your husband. I'm guessing your country offers multiple options such as keeping your child, adoption and abortion. You don't need to jump to decisions yet just stay very calm and let the next few days be for thinking.

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Me too momma. Just found out I am 9 weeks and I have a 5 month old. At first I felt depressed because I was feeling like myself again, working on myself my career being a good mother getting healthy. Now I feel like I have to put all that on hold again, got passed up again for promotion and had to turn down two job offers. Just stay positive. We’re women and we can’t handle this! As far as my husband goes... I pray he doesn’t have a nervous breakdown lol he handled a new baby at home worse than I anticipated. I tell myself I can do this this is a blessing...and should ask for help when I need it.

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