Do you often meet almost vanilla guys who think they're Christian Grey?

I'm on dating apps and I like how basically everyone thinks their preferences are weird. And when you start to get them to share their kinks, they say they like to be dominant and when you try to get them to elaborate more, it's basically them giving orders without punishment if the order isn't followed or is followed incorrectly.

Do you also come across guys like these, thinking you found someone who would make you find and perhaps cross your boundaries, but instead is just a little more dominant vanilla?