why are strangers shocked at the fact that your trying to have a baby I went to do a pre-order a family Dollar for only $50 because they are always out of the dollar ones and she asked if I work at a womans shelter and I said no I'm trying to have a baby and she slowly said "how about that wow" I'm like people get pregnant on accident I can't get pregnant on purpose are people just not talking about they infertility to the point that when someone does say I'm wanting a child they want to look at you like you have 3 heads