Let me start off by saying, I love my MIL. She has done SO much for us over the years and I know she is going to be a huge help after the baby comes. She's ALWAYS given her opinion about everything. Even when it came to our wedding. She's told me at least 5 times she feels like I should see a doctor and not a midwife and every single time I explain to her thats not what I want. I feel like she just doesn't respect my decision and always feels the need to share her opinion. It makes me not want to share anything with her regarding the baby and I'm afraid she's going to tell me how to raise my child. Also, she keeps suggesting we name the baby "Oliver"......... and every single time I tell her thats my EX BOYFRIENDS last name. There's no way in hell I would do that to my husband! Am I the only one going through this?!