My SO says this about condoms. what do you guys think?

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So my SO been together for awhile. We only use the pull out method as he informed me that he is "golden" at it and says that he pulls out 5 secs before he actually cums (at the last minute). He also says that wearing condoms is disrespectful to the girl that a guy is dating? what is your opinions about it. Just a thought 🤔

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my opinion? that your boyfriends full of shit,  and is just making excuses not to wear one.

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The pull out method is the worst protection. I mean do you honey, but don't be shocked if you miss your period at some point

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My fiancé is good at the pullout method. So good in fact, he got me pregnant. Sounds like your boyfriend is just making shit up to not wear one.

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Hahahahahahahahahahahaha!!! No. It’s not disrespectful to a woman if the guy puts on a condom. 
Do you want to know what is disrespectful?? Refusing to wear a condom and risk getting your girlfriend pregnant just because it feels better without one. 
Tell your man to slap on a condom any time his penis enters your vagina!!!

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The pull out method is not an actual form of birth control. Pre cum can get you pregnant. So yeah 🤷🏼‍♀️
Also, what is disrespectful to the girl is not doing what she feels comfortable with... I personally feel most comfortable with condoms and an IUD. So that’s what is respectful to me.
You need to decide what is respectful to you, and then he needs to stick with it.

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If you’re not ready for a baby, get on another form of birth control. 
My husband and I used the pull-out method successfully for 1.5 years but if I got pregnant at any point we would have been happy.

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okay sorry but I hope he’s ready to take care of a child. Condoms are not disrespectful, it’s actually disrespectful to not wear condoms. pull out method is not reliable no matter how good he thinks he is at pulling out

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it's disrespectful to ensure your partner is safe from disease and unwanted pregnancy? I want to know where he gets his logic because it makes no sense

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If you want a baby then wearing a condom is disrespectful. If you do not want a baby, wearing no condom is just stupid. The pull out method is an amazing method to get your surprise baby!

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That sounds like the whole, "Let me cum on your face, it's good for your skin"  dealio.  Use protection girl, nobody is "golden" at keeping sperm out of precum.

My SO says this about condoms. what do you guys think?

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