Almost 18 and still virgin

I go to a boarding school and although I attend the day school and I don’t live there I travel more than one hour to get home therefore I spend most of my time at school and I’m always too tired to go clubbing every week or hang out in town.

I had my last bf before Christmas when we broke up because I wasn’t sure about my feelings for him... I think he wanted to take our relationship to the next level but I didn’t want to because after 3 months I realised that I didn’t love him and I wasn’t attracted by him anymore because we rushed to much at the beginning.

Previously I had other 2 relationships but both were very brief, like 2-4 months and it was always me who wanted to break up.

Is it because I haven’t found the right person yet?

Should I hang out more often and get to know more people or should I just let the destiny do his part?

What are your experiences and most important when did you loose your virginity And how?