Tonight is my first night alone after making my SO move out of the apartment.

We were supposed to get married on Monday....however I did some snooping and found out that the first week we were living together he was texting his ex and telling hershe had been the love of his life and blah blah blah..that really hurt me. I feel like the foundation of our relationship is completely ruined. On the same day he told me loved me for the first time, he had texted her and told her she had been the love of his life and he was struggling to get over her. The first night we spent together he had been texting her telling her he wished they could run away and get married. So after finding that little bit of dirt I raked through that entire damn phone. And now I feel so insecure because the things he said to me that made me feel special and the cute nicknames he gave me, he also said/gave to her.

I called off the wedding and told him he needed to find somewhere to go.

Now I'm just wanting to call him and tell him to come home. I can't sleep and I'm sad and completely miserable.

Did I overreact? Or do I stick to my guns???