Getting him to understand baby cues

I’m just at wits end with my bf. This is a discussion I’ve had with him since our daughter was 1 week & I constantly repeat myself & drop hints but idk if he forgets, just doesn’t care or thinks he knows better. When my daughter is crying, hell If any baby is crying we’re taught to eliminate the reasons they may be crying which is usually hungry, dirty diaper, too hot/cold etc. so my bf tries doing me a favor today by taking the baby while I nap, I can’t nap because she’s screaming & crying nonstop & he’s just shhhshing her, mind u he’s the one who fed her this morning so hmmm don’t ya think she’s hungry by noon? Fucking feed her! Stop trying to put her to sleep! So I get up & make her bottle. He has yet to even change her diaper but every time I remind him of these things, he gets mad but i last changed her this morning & I know he hasn’t since because all the stuff is in our room where I’m trying to nap. Yes ppl say just be glad he’s trying to help out, but this has been going on for weeks. When will he get it? I’m afraid when I go back to work he’ll just have her in here hungry & in a soiled diaper. It’s been pretty warm these last few days so he turns the air on, ok fine but why do I have to tell him to put a blanket on her if all she has on is a onesie? It’s like unless I tell him to do something, it won’t get done & it’s frustrating because he knows better