My mom is not great at communicating what she wants at times, and then gets mad because people don’t do what she wants... it’s frustrating. I have asked her to be more direct so I can understand but she said “sometimes I’m not gonna do that” ...what? How am I supposed to understand what she wants me to do if the directions are unclear? This is why she gets in arguments with almost everyone in her life. Don’t even get me started on her relationship with my dad (he has major communication issues as well). I have tried to help her understand how to communicate better with others, but either she doesn’t listen (very possible) or doesn’t even try (also very possible). 🙄