Hubby not into my pleasure?

Question

Sometimes I don’t feel like my husband cares if I orgasm or not. When I bring it up it turns into a fight... or he says “sorry it wasn’t good enough for you.” For every 100 times he has gotten off, I got off once. I just feel like sex is for his pleasure and if I enjoy it great if not, all well... 
it makes me sad. I do not what to do....

Answer

That is so selfish! There are times I don't orgasm from penetration but my husband always makes sure I get off at least twice before he even attempts to get his...but my husband very much enjoys satisfying me. Maybe see if he'd be open to a toy or having him spend more time getting you in the mood, might make it easier to orgasm with him

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He should absolutely care way more than that. But maybe he’s clueless how to make it happen for you? Do you communicate to him how you would like it? Do you ever take the initiative yourself by being on top and being in control?

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My partner was a little selfish in bed too. But I talked to him about it and now he wants me to orgasm every time. 
I told him that his pleasure is so important to me and my pleasure should be important to him too. I let him know that I’m not as excited about sex sometimes because I know what the outcome is going to be. 
I told him that he is REALLY good at sex and I would rather have sex with him than anyone. 
I told him it makes me feel unloved and used when we have sex and his goal is to get himself off. 
My partner is really receptive to my feedback and super understanding. So we were able to work together. I honestly don’t orgasm every time we have sex due to fatigue, pain, sickness etc. But the fact that he puts in an effort and genuinely wants me to enjoy myself makes sex wonderful every time. I love it. 
I used to orgasm once every 100 times we have sex. Now I orgasm 3 out of 4 times we have sex.

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My ex didn’t either. It sucked, he was gifted, could last a bit, was a little adventurous...but he did not give a damn about my needs.

Hubby not into my pleasure?

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