Platonic cuddling?

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Me and my boyfriend just broke up but he's still living with me. I really want to cuddle up because I'm a complete mess and cuddling helps me calm down from depression and everything. Is it wrong for me to ask him to just cuddle with me as a friend?

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if you just broke up, why would you cuddle with the one thing you're supposed to be getting over? platonically, it isn't wrong, but it is counterproductive.

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I don’t see cuddling as platonic. Just my opinion.

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I feel like this is a bad idea and may lead to confusion about feelings and relationship status. If you’re broken up you need to act like it, otherwise you’ll never move on. The sooner you can both live separately the better.

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I’m sorry about the breakup..it’s really hard and sucks. I lived with my ex for a month after the breakup too. It was horrible. Your priority right now is to set boundaries. I remember missing the cuddles too and having withdrawals from the good stuff in that relationship. But you gotta remember why you broke up in the first place. You want to be with him? If no, then cuddling is not a good idea. It might sound harmless right now but in a long run dragging out the whole process will create more complications and be more painful most likely. Sorry you have to go through this :(

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I definitely would NOT cuddle(especially while upset) with someone you just broke up with. You’re gonna mess you’re head all up.

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There is no such thing as platonic cuddling with a person you JUST broke up with. Do you really think it is smart to be depending on him to calm down and get over these emotions..? Do you honestly think this won't just make it 1000x worse...?? Because it will.

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Sounds like you weren’t ready to break up

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Depends who did the breaking up and how the conversation ended

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