Anal play (read before voting)

My SO and I will be together for 5 years this October. It has taken a while for us to feel comfortable navigating each other’s bodies but we’ve slowly been getting more and more vocal about our sexual desires. I am an anal virgin but I know I am going to like it. I just won’t him put it in yet. He’s fingered it and eats it but I still won’t him in. (And he doesn’t pressure me in any way.) Last week, I “let it slip” that it is a “husband only” zone. He laughed but now it’s an ongoing joke that he’ll propose when I let him in. I have no intention of giving in but I’m curious to see the opinions of you ladies.. so what do you freaks think?