So I basically need to rant because I know my fiancé is over talking about. So last week my fiancé gets papers in the mail saying they are withholding money for child support. Well back when him and his ex split up they did a at home paternity test (I know it’s stupid and he does now to) that came out to be not his kid and everything was supposed to be dropped. Keep in mind she was living in one state and he was in another so who knows if she turned the results in. So now he’s trying to figure everything out about this stuff and he’s pretty sure one of his friends was giving her info because he had posted on his Facebook (which was locked down and she blocked) saying if you have any contact with her then delete me or I’ll delete you. Not even a hour after that she had posted the same thing basically except saying he was “abusive” and “she’s not safe”. She then deleted that one and the next day posted one basically saying she doesn’t feel safe because he knows where I live (not true we both only know what town she lives in) she was again saying how unsafe she was that he was contacting her (nope he didn’t contact her she pushed for child support) and she just goes on and on. Well on her business page she said she wasn’t going to post photos of her kids because she didn’t want them used inappropriately or for some people to see them. Well when going through her page I saw she picked and choose which ones to remove and keep. She got rid of a lot because in most the child looked dirty, like her hair has never once been brushed. She still posts good photos of her kids but only ones that make her look good. I start to try and get more info from my fiancé on everything and he’s trying to temper because this was all almost 4 years ago this started. He explained the timeline of them dating and meeting he said when she told him she was pregnant she was 14-16 weeks and they had been together pushing 3 months. Now I know pictures and how a child looks means nothing but she legit has no features of my fiancé aside from blue eyes and blonde hair something the other guy she slept with had as well. I saw the other guy and the child looks just like him from the nose to chin. Also I know some of you are going to ask we’ve been together for awhile he’s never once put his hands on me even when he was drunk, he’s never forced me to do anything I don’t want, and he’s amazing around my niece I also spoke to both the sisters they lived with and they both confirmed she was abusive towards him emotionally and she would push him and he never once put his hands on her, he also took care of not only “theirs” but her son from a different guy. He is getting a paternity test ordered this week and if it is his he’s willing to pay child support but only if he can see her. If the moms new husband wants to adopt her he’s willing to sign away his rights to him and be done with this crazy chick. We both agreed when she turns 18 if she wants to get to know him and move with us she can if she’s his. The mom also got remarried to the guy she’s with now basically as soon as their divorce was finalized.I forgot to add I’m pretty sure we figured out what friend leaked her stuff because she’s bestfriends with the girls roommate, goes over to her house often, and she had screen shot the post my fiancé made and sent it to me asking me about it and when my fiancé’s ex posted saying she had deleted everyone in contact with him they were still friends until after my fiancé called his friend out on it. His friend still denies it even though everything points to her.