who should I pick

so the issue is that I have a boyfriend and I think I may be in love with him, not in the spark happy every moment is magic kind of way, in the mundane bicker live your life apart but together kind of way. also my boyfriend lives a state away. but there's this other boy who lives in my town and I've known for a good 5 or 6 years which is longer than I've known my boyfriend and he gives me butterflies and I just want to be held by him and kiss him when I'm with him and he makes me so happy, he also is one of my best friends and I trust him more than anyone else probably ever. the only problem is he's kind of a sensitive man (and I have a hard time with sensitive people) and he's clingy (also not really my thing). I don't really know what to do like should I stay with my boyfriend or not...