Girl on top

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for awhile now and usually it is him doing the work and I feel bad cause it should be more even but I am insecure about being on top because for me it doesn’t feel as good and it hurts after awhile and I am afraid he doesn’t enjoy it as much either! I have tried being on top a few times but it doesn’t really work out that often what are some tips?? 😕😬