What would you do..?

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TTC with partner over 12 years. Never was able to bc I was diagnosed w/ pituitary tumor caused by high prolactin. Doc put me on bromcriptine in December got pregnant in May. 6wks & 5 days.. My first pregnancy😀 partner wants me to get an abortion & wait until next year. What's your outtake?

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Have that baby and raise it on your own if he isn't ready. I would never get rid of a baby I tried to make for 12 years for any man!

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Have the baby. He should have said something before the pregnancy....he had 12 years to say something.

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Fuck that partner!! If y'all were actually TTC, what is the point of abortion and waiting a year?!? What if it takes another 12 years to conceive again? Do you have that kind of time left? I would keep my baby, you worked your ass off to get to meet them.

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If you've been TTC for over 12 years why does he all of a sudden want to wait a year?

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Youve wanted this baby for 12 years! He or she is your little blessing. Your husband is probably nervous now that its actually happening. Try to be understanding of his reluctance but stay strong and keep your baby. Hopefully he will come around and realize that this child is a dream come true :-)

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Thanks ladies I'm keeping my baby we had a conversation & he understands

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I'm pro-choice, but that being YOUR choice. I don't know the whole situation, but to me, it sounds like you've been ready for 12 years! Congratulations mama :)

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I am going through the high prolactin levels, pituitary tumor thing right now.  You give me hope that I will be able to get pregnant once we get the problem solved!!

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I'm pro choice, and respect you decision but a baby takes almost a year to cook anyway... What difference will a year make?

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I wouldn't get the abortion unless it was something I wanted. Especially if I had medical issues which could potentially stop me from getting pregnant in the future. Do what you want. He should have wrapped it up if he wasn't ready. I would just say "I am not having an abortion, I hope that you can understand." He may just be shocked and get over it. Or this may be a big indicator of how he feels about you. Congratulations on your pregnancy.

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