Now that I’m getting closer to delivery , I’m getting more nervous . Some people suggest that you don’t get the epidural and some suggest that you should . I’m scared because when you get it you can’t move at all if you do you’ll get paralyzed and i heard there’s a lot of side effects , BUT I’ve also heard stories where people said with the epidural really helped them feel almost no pain. So what are you moms thinking of doing ? And are you nervous ?