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My fiancé is currently an infantry officer in the Iowa Army National Guard. He has been given the opportunity to transition to active duty. Ever since I known him, he has wanted this. I wouldn’t mind this if he asked a year ago but now I am 7 months pregnant and we JUST bought a house here in Iowa. He tells me I can stay home with the baby and go back to school full time. This all sounds nice but I deal with a lot of mental illness and being alone and away from family could put me in a dark place. I know there is a possibility that I love it too! I was enlisted in the Navy years ago so obviously at one point the military life looked amazing! I wanna be able to see the world and give my child every opportunity but I’m so stuck on what’s best for everyone. Money is not a factor since he is a military contractor as a civilian job. I allowed him to submit his packet to see if he’s eligible but nothing is set in stone yet. Please any input is needed!