I'm 33 weeks pregnant and have been so unsure on what to name our baby girl this whole time, we have ideas but nothing has felt right and i've literally given up searching for anymore because I cannot find any names I haven't already seen. We've said we'll name her at birth, but I always assumed I would kind of know her name before that, but it just seems so strange deciding on a name for someone who's not here, I don't know how to put it into words but I just can't seem to find that connection I always expected, it just seems weird like I'm trying to find a name for an imaginary friend or something, it just doesn't seem right or like something I have to do - I know it is.

But anyway my question is, did anyone not have a clue on baby's name and not care much for any names until baby was born? Did it change once she was born? I'm just so terrified of never finding a name for her even once she's born. I don't know now if it's because maybe it doesn't feel quiet real or what the deal is, but nothing has just jumped out at me and the whole thing seems unnecessary which I know it's not but my heart or mind just won't get into it. I don't even know, someone please help me make sense of how I feel and give me some comfort. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️