Long story short?

Ok ladies. I was debating on whether I should post this story as I know I’ve dealt with a lot of negativity from people on here before.

However , I’m hoping I can get advice without anyone being judgmental and mean 😥

Its pretty long but I’ll make it short. (If that makes sense ?)

Fast forward a year ago. I did things I shouldn’t have on FB with an old flame. Nothing physical , just stupid pictures being sent. I was unhappy with my marriage and instead of finding mature ways to deal with it, I went the immature route.

Old flame wanted to meet up. I said yes

That night I told my husband what I did because I couldn’t fathom ever being physical with another man. Showed husband pictures I sent. ( it was more than just a booty pic ).

Obviously and rightfully so, he was LIVID.

Called me names , threatened divorce, the whole 9 yards.

It wasn’t a fun year

Fast forward to March of this year.

Hubby tells me he hooked up with a former co worker “out of revenge”.

YIP. I know. I know...whatever you are thinking, I KNOW.

It gets better. He did it more than once.

BTW she’s pregnant. And she claims that it’s his. However husband swears he had protected sex and then pulled out twice. Yes I know you can still get pregnant from the pull out method.

However , as stupid as he IS, my husband of 11 years doesn’t lie. He says he pulled out perfectly. Came way after he pulled out.

This “girl” , is insane. She was madly in love with my husband. Obviously my husband wansnt in love I th her. Just a hookup Bc he’s with me and not her right now.

My husband has said he wants a DNA test.

He would

Pay for the one where you can get one still

Pregnant. She refuses.

She’s separated from her husband BTW. And she’s been with other men while with husband

She also texts him constantly with things like “ I’m naming him Damion” (my husbands middle name) and im giving you a son

My husband will not sign anything until she takes a DNA test. Like I said. He did some stupid shit but he ain’t stupid. I’m extremely extremely fertile and he used the pull out method with me for a year or two before I got pregnant.

If this kid turns out to be his. Fine. He will be a man and take care of it.

But I’ll be heartbroken.

I don’t know what to believe and I pray it’s not his

I hope it’s not his and just claiming it is bc she’s still in love with him.

I’m so stressed and sick about it all

However. If I wasn’t so busy making stupid decisions in the first place none of this would have happened

Thanks for reading. Any advice ?

Please be gentle 😪