My current bf said I need to learn out to cook if I want to be with him. Was I wrong to get mad at this statement??

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Does he know how to cook?

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Him asking you to learn how to cook is fine but making it like an ultimatums uncool. For me, my fiancé is a chef and 7 years older so I don’t have the confidence to be in the kitchen lol

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My SO is a better cook than me. Don’t get me wrong I have the basics down and I have a few things that I’m amazing at. However he’s the real chef. he’s totally down to cook as long as I do the dishes which I’m more than happy to do lol!

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it goes both ways . it is a necessity to cook and he should learn as well .

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This may be weird to some but its just my opinion and the way I am. But.. I think a women should absolutely know how to cook and clean before she is married! Ive actually tried to teach some girls I know how to cook. Ive had a friend that wouldnt work, wouldnt cook, wouldnt clean. And I thought to myself.. What does she have to offer? Nothing! A marriage is a team effort. She literally had nothing to offer to a marriage. 🤷🤷 I wouldnt want a women that couldnt cook a clean.

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Is he the, "ladies need to stay in the kitchen and make me a sandwich instead of making me get off my lazy ass and doing it myself" kind of man? Then yes you were right to get mad. But unless you want to eat microwaved food for the rest of your life, maybe you should learn to cook, but for YOURSELF!!

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Noooo you are not wrong to be mad

Some men smh

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You're not wrong, but, he isn't necessarily wrong either.
What was the context and discussion at the time?

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You weren't wrong to get mad. But, it's definitely a good skill to have. My fiance taught me how to cook and I actually enjoy it when I'm not exhausted from work.

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Well any adult should learn how to cook at some point...does he cook?

My current bf said I need to learn out to cook if I want to be with him. Was I wrong to get mad at this statement??

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