When you go to bed and your husband mentions he never wants children and then you wake up and he's talking about our future children knowing full well your ready but he's still undecided...

How about you shut up and tell me when your ready instead of giving me daily updates on what you think at that time damn. Like make your mind up before you open your mouth.

* No I didn't marry a man who never wants kids he does want them he just doesn't know when he does. He is so financially stressed about it he can't commit to a time frame of when to start trying and it bothers him if we have a baby he may not be able to provide the kid the life it deserves. I personally understand that but I don't appreciate the stop and go of the topic.