Left me for a drug addict coworker who he told me he found as annoying and she has a cocaine problem. He's done coke a few times that isn't my lifestyle. He decided two nights ago he was going to stay the night at a girl's house (her) with a group of her female friends. I couldn't get any sleep that night because I had a gut feeling he was doing something he shouldn't be. Confronted him the next day, his best friend told me he didn't stay the night at his place so my suspicion sky rocketed more. I got the answers out of him, he was hiding so much from me. My advice, if you have a gut feeling about something approach the situation. I'm not hurt i'm disgusted, my sister's know who the girl is and have told me she's a mess and gets around. He can have his fun, I'll have fun without an altereted perception because I can handle my reality. You've got problems mentally if you're hooked to drugs, you're trying to escape what will still be there tomorrow and that isn't healthy. I'll find a man who doesn't spend his weekly pay check on weed and branch off to other drugs. The night he stayed over with her, I called his best friend to talk to my now ex and was sobbing for him to stay the night with me but said he was too drunk. (His best friend told me he hardly touched his 1st drink.) He proceeded to go over to the girl's house knowing I was upset and wanted his company. Goodbye to this negatvity, i deserve better.