At what point do I stop putting in so much work for my 9m son to see his dad? He barely takes care of him (skips baby food meals, never bathes him, never fully dresses him, etc) but I know that he does emotionally care. I have to set up pick up/drop off times and locations constantly and check with Dad if he’s even expecting LO that weekend. Dad is entirely the type of guy who won’t go out of his way for anyone and all of the effort falls on me. It’s not that I don’t want them in each other’s life - I’m just sick of feeling like that’s entirely on me. 😪