hi everyone! so is have a boyfriend and we’ve been together for 3 almost 4 years. we started dating our freshman year of high school and we just graduated high school and are still together. he never pressured me into anything i didn’t want to do and our relationship has and still is pretty amazing. i love him with all my heart and i was ready to have sex with him, but i am a virgin. he was not though, but he was patient and very gentleman like and caring with me. we tried, and it hurt SOO BADLY that he could barely put it in. i screamed with pain, which made me nervous, and i feel as if i’ll never have sex. it was our 4th time trying, and it’s soo painful. we’ve done foreplay and everything. please help! what can we do to make things easier for me?