Beyond livid

So midweek last week I get this random Facebook request from a chic that I have had my suspicion about but have my other half the benefit of the doubt, well actually it was her friend on her behalf. wanting to know if I was still with John (name changed) and if so how long ago did we move to where we are living now and were is that at because he wont give her any info and there had been time she has needed him for their son. Then she comes back and answers that btw its her now and sends me an ultrasound pic saying girl and due next month and yes it's his and he wants to name her after his mom. On Thursday she shows up outside our place with her stepdad and he chases her down and they go to my place of work to talk and I catch them together talking and i tell him to get out. He took some of his things out friday but now hes trying to say after admitting the 2 kids are his that he never said that they are his because he has a vasectomy 10 years ago. And that she doesn't want him even thou she sent me the texts he sent her saying that he wants her and she wants him. No matter what i say he says I'm imagining things and wants things back to normal. And isn't getting the hint when i dont do the "normal" that they aint. oh and we have been together 13 years. But thinking he's been cheating the past 5.

**Udate**

sorry it's been a rough few months. He has completely moved out, I think he is living with the woman that bought him his brand new truck. (not the one I caught him with that is pregnant). I see him for maybe 10 minutes a day when he stops to repack his lunch stuff for the next day. In fact I'm trying to move closer to my parents and work as soon as possible.