Orgasms.. confused & feeling like something is wrong with me lol

So I can masturbate and finish in no time. Literally like 2 minutes and I’m done. But I’ve had sex with multiple people, had different guys go down on me, tried different positions, tried toys, and it’s like I’ve never had that feeling.. is something wrong with me? I feel like I can get close to an orgasm but never actually finish and then they realize that I’m getting close to finishing so they do whatever they’re doing harder and it all hurts.. am i the only one? Pls help