Is that a family name? 😒

I’m not super keen on telling the whole world what my husband and I have decided to name our baby boy. It’s not a secret but I feel like it’s so new, so special that I just don’t want to blurt it out. But that’s literally the only question I seem to get mainly from those not closest to me (like coworkers), “what’s his name going to be?” His first name will be Theo but I respond “we like Theo...” and 99% of the response “is that a family name?” Well no. It’s a name we like and if we name our son Theo that will be HIS name! Are y’all getting these questions? Today my coworkers said, let’s spend the day picking out some middle names. No, let’s not. I’m 22 + 3 and I’m still learning all this too, give me some space. I know they’re being nice but my hormones have turned me into someone who isn’t nice right now haha.