My husband and I have been TTC for about 3 1/2 years now. I haven’t talked to many people about this other than the Glow community. I find it really tough to talk to my friends and family about it, so much so that almost nobody knows I’m even TTC, yet alone how long. I just hate the questions and comments, why can’t you get pregnant, have you gone to the doctor, it’ll happen when the time is right, etc. But on the other hand I hate being asked by literally EVERYONE when we are going to have a baby because I don’t know how to respond. I feel selfish even thinking that, you cant have your cake and eat it too. I just wish that more people were aware of how common infertility is and how it effects people. Sometimes that young couple hasn’t a had a baby, not because they don’t want to, but because they can’t. Okay, rant over.