I hate going to see my husbands family

My family and my husbands family are all relatively nice, good people and we love them but I HATE going to see them.

Both my husband and I are okay with only seeing them once maybe twice a month (we live within 15 minutes of every one). My family is completely ok with that because they understand we have our own lives and they are all doing their thing.

But my husbands family thinks we need to see them once or twice A WEEK, and will randomly show up at my house!!

Its gotten to the point where I won’t answer the door when someone knocks because of this.

If my husband doesn’t answer his aunts call (even at 11pm) she will text him and be like “why are you ignoring me?” His sister will send messages saying,”just want to know how y’all are doing haven’t seen y’all since may.”- and it’s literally June 3rd!! And she tells his aunt she feels like he doesn’t care about because we aren’t involved enough.

And when we do go to see them they always bring up money 🙄

My husband is over my FIL finances(pays his bills), has power of attorney over him, and is his beneficiary for everything.

None of it, NONE OF IT, is any of their business but they always try to but in and “make sure everything is ok”.

And then his aunt ALWAYS has something to complain or nag him about.

He’s told them that we are busy, I work graveyard shift and he works weekends so during the day we are trying to have family time, clean, run errands etc.

He’s also told them that it bothers him how they bring up money, and feels like they are constantly attacking him but they refuse to stop.

It’s just so fucking annoying. Thankfully my husband has several different job opportunities out of state and we should we away from them relatively soon