I am so annoyed right now. A friend of mine told me a story about her weekend spent with her bf and I am more than 99% sure that she just described herself raping her own boyfriend.

She told me that they were sat by a fireplace and she started touching him down there, he said he wasn’t in the mood due to having a bad day. Which automatically is a no. So she went on to tell me (WHILST LAUGHING) that she wouldn’t take no for an answer so she “put on her puppy dog eyes” to persuade him. She then told me that she started giving him head, and that he kept telling her “babe please can we just talk”. Again, another sign of not consenting. But this next thing she said is what got me. She said ‘he stopped talking and got hard so I knew he was enjoying it’. She then said that she started getting on top of him and having sex with him, for a good 15 minutes. I am literally horrified. The worst thing is that this girl is a supposed feminist and always complains about getting catcalled, getting touched without permission etc. I’ve told her how it all sounds and she insists that it was NOT a rape, she’s so persistent that she didn’t rape him.

What do I do? This is a rape right it’s not just me?